"...you can't pinpoint the moment where a friendship tranforms into a bond.. a relationship. like a rishtedaari - family thing."
"Rishtedaari is a family bond, or what one would do for another when one becomes part of a family -- when friendships transcend to become family relations."
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My thanks to methinks and Divya, two women from India who recently introduced me to a concept I've known for years -- I just didn't have a word for it.
This is my sister Ericka, and we know all about Rishtedaari.
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For you Sis --
"...I remember thinking
Sometimes we walk
Sometimes we run away
But I know
No matter how fast we are running
Somehow we keep
Somehow we keep up with each other
I'll be - falling all about my own thing
And I know - you're the heaviest weight
When your not here
That's hung around my head
And your lips burn wild
Thrown from the face of a child
And in your eyes
The seeing of the greatest view
Do what you will, always
Walk where you like, your steps
Do as you please, I'll back you up..."
Dave Matthews Band - I'll Back You Up - Remember Two Things
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